Quote from: Bingsu on May 01, 2018, 04:30:38 pm****, dude.I was trying to get something shipped to my school but Gmarket didn't like the address format, so I had to ship it to my apartment.It got there while I was still in class but I ran home ASAP to get it.Get to the door, it's gone.Nobody will answer their phone so I can't get hold of my landlord to ask if she knows where it is.A N G R YOn the plus side, by not having it shipped to your zoo school, you avoided the inevitable situation of your co-teacher opening the package and having the students urinate all over half the contents while stealing the rest for herself.
****, dude.I was trying to get something shipped to my school but Gmarket didn't like the address format, so I had to ship it to my apartment.It got there while I was still in class but I ran home ASAP to get it.Get to the door, it's gone.Nobody will answer their phone so I can't get hold of my landlord to ask if she knows where it is.A N G R Y
Quote from: StillInKorea on May 01, 2018, 05:13:10 pmQuote from: Bingsu on May 01, 2018, 04:30:38 pm****, dude.I was trying to get something shipped to my school but Gmarket didn't like the address format, so I had to ship it to my apartment.It got there while I was still in class but I ran home ASAP to get it.Get to the door, it's gone.Nobody will answer their phone so I can't get hold of my landlord to ask if she knows where it is.A N G R YOn the plus side, by not having it shipped to your zoo school, you avoided the inevitable situation of your co-teacher opening the package and having the students urinate all over half the contents while stealing the rest for herself.She gave me the info and called the landlord and tbh if she can find this box I will take back literally everything I've said about her, and also give someone my left foot.
holds my package like a newbornDoes anyone have a hacksaw and a time machine?
Quote from: Chinguetti on May 02, 2018, 08:00:00 am they try to rub their shoulders against my breasts or their crotches against my shoulder (if I'm sitting). GODEw. Gross.And it's only going to get worse as they get older and become adults out in the world.
they try to rub their shoulders against my breasts or their crotches against my shoulder (if I'm sitting). GOD
Wait - what? High school kids are literally hitting on you that flagrantly? That's messed up. Like - extremely messed up. I'm not sure what other men's experiences were like when they were in high school, but I would've been too intimidated to pull that kind of thing with girls a few years older, nevertheless a grown ass teacher. Do they creep this hard on other women that you've noticed, or is it just you?
Quote from: #basedcowboyshirt on May 02, 2018, 08:47:10 amWait - what? High school kids are literally hitting on you that flagrantly? That's messed up. Like - extremely messed up. I'm not sure what other men's experiences were like when they were in high school, but I would've been too intimidated to pull that kind of thing with girls a few years older, nevertheless a grown ass teacher. Do they creep this hard on other women that you've noticed, or is it just you?It's just me that I've seen so far, and I'm pretty sure it's because they buy into the stereotype that foreign women are all sex-crazed and will sleep with anyone who compliments and expresses interest in them. And the fact that their school is located so close to my school is like an open opportunity for them, especially since they know I leave before my students do so they have a chance to speak privately with me (it's still safe, though, it's by a busy road).It doesn't happen all year round, but it's literally at the beginning of every semester that a group of boys (never less than five) will slink around my school hoping for a chance to chat me up. If I don't manage to avoid them, and if I don't somehow manage to shut down their attempts before then, it inevitably leads into them telling me that they're virgins and that I'm very pretty. I haven't told my school about it because it only happens once or twice every semester, and it's always different boys, but I'm thinking that maybe I should. Sometimes I get discouraged about saying anything about this sort of thing, though, because people here are so quick to tell me that I'm probably only misunderstanding the situation. And also because I don't want to stress my coTs out over something that I've managed to handle on my own so far. xD
When my ex cheated on me a co-worker suggested it was because I was a foreigner, so perhaps he thought I would be okay with it.
Quote from: Pennypie on May 02, 2018, 09:59:20 amWhen my ex cheated on me a co-worker suggested it was because I was a foreigner, so perhaps he thought I would be okay with it. Is your coworker male or female?Because Korean males are all very much aware of how rampant the cheating is here, even with K-girlfriends/wives. But while at least half of them think cheating is fine, they're also aware of how the rest of the world views it so they try to keep it secret outside of their male/friend groups.So I'd only buy that particular explanation if the ex was really open about cheating on you, as if he expected you to be okay with that. xD
Female. I think that made it worse
Or it could be that, as what usually happens in societies, people become more responsible and better behaved the older they get.
Quote from: eggieguffer on May 02, 2018, 10:33:07 amOr it could be that, as what usually happens in societies, people become more responsible and better behaved the older they get.Most teenagers who rub their crotches against women (or anyone, for that matter) aren't doing it because of a lack of maturity, same as for teenagers who end up torturing animals or who get involved in gang life. They're doing it because they have severe personality and social problems which are often rooted in other problematic influences (such as home life) completely unrelated to their maturity levels. The only thing their maturity levels have in that fight is in impulse control and in how susceptible they are to outside influences that could end up leading them down that road in the first place, but once that trait has been established in their personalities, it's normally there to stay. So they don't just grow out of it. They just better learn how to hide it, and to become quite a bit more calculating about it.There's no excusing this as a lack of maturity as this is not considered a normal process in development. Most people, male or female, would never ever think to do something like this, even when they're young and immature. It's actually legally and medically recognized as a deviation from normal development, and is classified as dysfunctional behavior. Some people are just worse than others. People who sexually harass as adults started out sexually harassing people as teenagers first. That's where they started testing it.To illustrate, most of the gross behavior I experience in this country are from full-grown men. I know they didn't suddenly become that way as adults. It started when they were young. They were basically the kids I was describing in my previous posts.
My two year old likes whipping his penis out in public occasionally, so I guess that's him f--cked for life
Females here don't understand how pervasive the "foreign slut/whore" stereotype is. I have heard some absolutely disgusting things from Korean guys about western women. Things they would never say about Korean women. When I first moved here I hung out with a group of Korean guys who were in the same social soccer league as me. They were fuckin filthy. "I heard in Canada you can just go to a night club and girls will grab your dick. If you touch their breasts in public they like it. Anal sex is normal for every time. In America life is easy becuase if you want sex you can just meet a girl in a coffe shop or supermarket and have sex within a few hours."My wife was a high school teacher and she was pretty young when she started, like 24 and beautiful (though I may be biased). I've asked her about her experience and she said no student would even think of saying something sexually suggestive to a female teacher. They were all ultra polite to her. Her friends of a similar age and also working as teachers said the same thing.So when she returned to work after our kid was born she worked at a high school hagwon place part time and there were a bunch of western female teachers and she was shocked by what the students said to the foreign girls. All the western females just thought it was part of being a teacher here. It really, really isn't. And shouldn't be.It's the same way kids will try out there swear words with NETs, but wouldn't dare with a Korean teacher.