Quote from: yirj17 on April 11, 2017, 03:36:18 pmQuote from: #basedcowboyshirt on April 11, 2017, 03:34:34 pmI... feel like it's totally normal to want to stay at home? Isn't it? I always think the people who are like "OH MY GAWDDD I'M GONNA GO TO _________ FOR THE WEEKEND AND SEE ___________!!" are the weird ones.It's totally normal to be tired all the time. I think it has something to do with not being a kid anymore. I don't know. I feel like the stuff you guys are complaining about is just standard for life, isn't it?Maybe you're just old, bruh I dunno. I enjoy chilling at home most the time but I think people are talking about becoming shut-ins and not necessarily enjoying it. I think there's two kinds of tired too. One is from living your life and enjoying yourself, however that might be, while the other is from boredom and lack of stimulation. The former doesn't have to be all night craziness, either. Just fulfilling life stuff.One is healthy, the other, not so much. Of course it's fine to want to go home after work if that's your thing, but to feel like nothing's worth doing so let's just stay home allt he time? I dunno. If it's more than just a phase then it might be time to mix things up a bit.
Quote from: #basedcowboyshirt on April 11, 2017, 03:34:34 pmI... feel like it's totally normal to want to stay at home? Isn't it? I always think the people who are like "OH MY GAWDDD I'M GONNA GO TO _________ FOR THE WEEKEND AND SEE ___________!!" are the weird ones.It's totally normal to be tired all the time. I think it has something to do with not being a kid anymore. I don't know. I feel like the stuff you guys are complaining about is just standard for life, isn't it?Maybe you're just old, bruh I dunno. I enjoy chilling at home most the time but I think people are talking about becoming shut-ins and not necessarily enjoying it.
I... feel like it's totally normal to want to stay at home? Isn't it? I always think the people who are like "OH MY GAWDDD I'M GONNA GO TO _________ FOR THE WEEKEND AND SEE ___________!!" are the weird ones.It's totally normal to be tired all the time. I think it has something to do with not being a kid anymore. I don't know. I feel like the stuff you guys are complaining about is just standard for life, isn't it?
Quote from: Kayos on April 11, 2017, 03:09:07 pmthey do have a fresh, new, liquid soap container that is full too. Interesting -- I've never seen liquid soap containers (let alone liquid soap) in any of the restrooms in the public schools in Korea where I used to work.
they do have a fresh, new, liquid soap container that is full too.
Weekdays are somewhat torturous because I feel the latter kind of tired more or less. I'm just killing time until the weekend, which is mentally and spiritually draining, even with all the things I do (like kickboxing in 20 minutes).It makes focusing on work exceptionally hard.
Following up on my rant yesterday...Last week my main co-teacher said "You look so tired lately, and you've lost weight. Are you healthy?" I told her that I was fine, hadn't lost weight, and just get tired sometimes. Yesterday, she asked me to go have a "talk". Apparently, telling me that I looked tired was supposed to be secret code for "I'm angry with you and you should do better at school." She went off on me for a laundry list of different complaints, from "yawning in class", to "using materials from waygook" (I used one excellent review ppt, and usually make the vast majority of my own materials), to "making boring activities". She actually told me at one point "If you want to end your contract, I will help you do that."This all came after I told her on Friday that I won't re-sign my contract. Before then, our working relationship was mostly excellent. Just two weeks ago, when she was drunk at a 희식 she told me I was the best foreign teacher that she had ever had. I'm worried that she is going to make my life miserable for the next 4 months, looking for every minor mistake in order to make her feel better about me leaving. Has this happened to anyone else when they don't re-sign?!
Ah, see. I could stay in all day reading or playing games, or whatever if I had someone to do it with. I need the presence of another person but I could be introverted with them all day, because that's fulfilling to me.
Quote from: sevenpm on April 11, 2017, 03:14:39 pmQuote from: What?What? on April 10, 2017, 02:31:53 pmI should have left when my last contract ended. I made a mistake staying.You have my sympathies. I'm starting to feel this way too.When I first got here, I loved it. Then slowly I started to see the bad sides of things. This coupled with the judgmental and rude things some Koreans around me would say about foreigners had me pretty much seething about this place for a year. Something about people being unable to admit their own faults made those same faults even more unbearable to me. I'm around much nicer people now and so those feelings have simmered, but instead of feeling invigorated again I just feel done.I've lost interest in the country, the food, the people, the language, the job... I don't even want to leave my apartment half the time because I'm always so happy to get home! I feel bad because I've met some really nice people this year, but I'm a dud now. I don't even want to go to my favorite places anymore. I have to force myself to be nice to students.It's disappointing because even when I couldn't stand Korea, I still enjoyed things like traveling around on the KTX or seeing some new sight. Now it's like "been there, done that" even if I haven't actually been there. I'm hoping this is just a phase but it doesn't seem like it.I feel EXACTLY the same way! Last year was hell on wheels, and this time around I have great schools, great CT's, but it's just not working for me and I am really trying to be positive and active and I just seem to be stuck in flat mode. I am also hoping it is just a phase but I am not sure I am going to make it through the year.
Quote from: What?What? on April 10, 2017, 02:31:53 pmI should have left when my last contract ended. I made a mistake staying.You have my sympathies. I'm starting to feel this way too.When I first got here, I loved it. Then slowly I started to see the bad sides of things. This coupled with the judgmental and rude things some Koreans around me would say about foreigners had me pretty much seething about this place for a year. Something about people being unable to admit their own faults made those same faults even more unbearable to me. I'm around much nicer people now and so those feelings have simmered, but instead of feeling invigorated again I just feel done.I've lost interest in the country, the food, the people, the language, the job... I don't even want to leave my apartment half the time because I'm always so happy to get home! I feel bad because I've met some really nice people this year, but I'm a dud now. I don't even want to go to my favorite places anymore. I have to force myself to be nice to students.It's disappointing because even when I couldn't stand Korea, I still enjoyed things like traveling around on the KTX or seeing some new sight. Now it's like "been there, done that" even if I haven't actually been there. I'm hoping this is just a phase but it doesn't seem like it.
I should have left when my last contract ended. I made a mistake staying.
Quote from: sisususi on April 12, 2017, 08:35:22 amFollowing up on my rant yesterday...Last week my main co-teacher said "You look so tired lately, and you've lost weight. Are you healthy?" I told her that I was fine, hadn't lost weight, and just get tired sometimes. Yesterday, she asked me to go have a "talk". Apparently, telling me that I looked tired was supposed to be secret code for "I'm angry with you and you should do better at school." She went off on me for a laundry list of different complaints, from "yawning in class", to "using materials from waygook" (I used one excellent review ppt, and usually make the vast majority of my own materials), to "making boring activities". She actually told me at one point "If you want to end your contract, I will help you do that."This all came after I told her on Friday that I won't re-sign my contract. Before then, our working relationship was mostly excellent. Just two weeks ago, when she was drunk at a 희식 she told me I was the best foreign teacher that she had ever had. I'm worried that she is going to make my life miserable for the next 4 months, looking for every minor mistake in order to make her feel better about me leaving. Has this happened to anyone else when they don't re-sign?!Just remember you can start making her life hell for the next 4 months too. Sucks, but she sounds crazy.
The "school playing field" is right outside my classroom window and I frequently find myself daydreaming about being a PE teacher. Responsibilities include: wearing sweatpants, holding a stopwatch, standing.
Wait that wasn't a rant was it
Quote from: chupacaubrey on April 12, 2017, 09:20:15 amThe "school playing field" is right outside my classroom window and I frequently find myself daydreaming about being a PE teacher. Responsibilities include: wearing sweatpants, holding a stopwatch, standing.Ugh, you and me both. The PE teacher at our school (I call him Shaq Teacher) literally just wears wears sweat pants and tshirts all day every day. He gets sunshine and plays basketball all the time.
Quote from: chupacaubrey on April 12, 2017, 09:29:11 amWait that wasn't a rant was itNo, that is not a rant, but now you have me rethinking my career possibilities.
Quote from: #basedcowboyshirt on April 11, 2017, 03:34:34 pmI... feel like it's totally normal to want to stay at home? Isn't it? I always think the people who are like "OH MY GAWDDD I'M GONNA GO TO _________ FOR THE WEEKEND AND SEE ___________!!" are the weird ones.It's totally normal to be tired all the time. I think it has something to do with not being a kid anymore. I don't know. I feel like the stuff you guys are complaining about is just standard for life, isn't it?Well, maybe it's normal for you but I didn't feel this way before and I didn't feel this way back home. I mean, I dread even going to the store or the mall or meeting friends... it's stuff I used to like.