Quote from: yirgacheffe on October 26, 2016, 01:59:27 pmQuote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:58:09 pmQuote from: yirgacheffe on October 26, 2016, 01:56:19 pmQuote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:54:06 pmWhat are "yos"?요. Those blankets that you put on the floor or your mattress before you lie down.Google translate is thoroughly useless sometimes (especially with Korean). I had literally typed in "요" and got "yo" in return. LOL I think it's called a comforter in English. Not really sure.They're not quite the same as the ones you put on your bed in place of a sheet - they're thicker. Kind of Korean-style futon except in my experience Japanese futons are much thicker compared to Korean yos.
Quote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:58:09 pmQuote from: yirgacheffe on October 26, 2016, 01:56:19 pmQuote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:54:06 pmWhat are "yos"?요. Those blankets that you put on the floor or your mattress before you lie down.Google translate is thoroughly useless sometimes (especially with Korean). I had literally typed in "요" and got "yo" in return. LOL I think it's called a comforter in English. Not really sure.
Quote from: yirgacheffe on October 26, 2016, 01:56:19 pmQuote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:54:06 pmWhat are "yos"?요. Those blankets that you put on the floor or your mattress before you lie down.Google translate is thoroughly useless sometimes (especially with Korean). I had literally typed in "요" and got "yo" in return.
Quote from: yirj17 on October 26, 2016, 01:54:06 pmWhat are "yos"?요. Those blankets that you put on the floor or your mattress before you lie down.
What are "yos"?
I think my boss teacher definitely (not so) secretly hates me. Whenever I do anything wrong (or just something she doesn't like) she always says "everyone saw [whatever]"Last week when we had that fight, I don't remember if I wrote here, but she kept saying at one point "Everyone sees you" and I asked what that meant and she just repeated herself "Everyone sees you everyday" I said something like, ok, I'm sorry that no one likes me, and she said that wasn't what she meant(On my mind because she got upset at me for something today and went on about how "everyone saw")
Death of a friendship = planning a vacation together.I was supposed to go on vacation with a friend. She really wanted to travel and she was saying that her family and friends don't like travelling with her but she didn't want to travel alone so she suggested we travel together. Now, I need a visa, she doesn't. The earliest I can apply for my visa is in November. I told her this, she said she was fine with it. But ever since May, 3x a month, I've had to tell her, again, why I still haven't applied for my visa. I can bear repeating the same thing over and over again. What gets my goat, is that in July she spoke to a coworker of hers who told her I was being lazy and I was a liar and I could get my visa any time I wanted. She calls me, gleefully tells me what her coworker says and says she agrees with him because he travels all around the world and he knows so much and then calls me lazy and a liar (never mind that he and I are different nationalities which means our visa requirements aren't the same). Nope, I showed her all the documentation, she wanted to know why I hadn't bothered to tell her about my visa before. Things calmed down and we went back to her asking me 3x a month if I had my visa yet.This month she freaked out completely and started yelling at me that I still didn't have my visa and her coworker told her that I was lying. She shouted and called me lazy and a liar, again, so I told her I'd had it and I was out of the vacation. Her language got really colorful so I politely ended the call. I've now deeply and mortally offended her because I'm younger than her and I was the one who cancelled the trip - I have no right to cancel anything, only she can and she still wanted to go. I also ended the call first because she was merely screaming at me. Only the person who is older can end the phone call. And if someone older than you is yelling at you? You have to accept it. Ah, no.So many signs... I hate it when I'm oblivious (my first word choice was stupid).
Quote from: gidget on October 26, 2016, 03:09:36 pmDeath of a friendship = planning a vacation together.I was supposed to go on vacation with a friend. She really wanted to travel and she was saying that her family and friends don't like travelling with her but she didn't want to travel alone so she suggested we travel together. Now, I need a visa, she doesn't. The earliest I can apply for my visa is in November. I told her this, she said she was fine with it. But ever since May, 3x a month, I've had to tell her, again, why I still haven't applied for my visa. I can bear repeating the same thing over and over again. What gets my goat, is that in July she spoke to a coworker of hers who told her I was being lazy and I was a liar and I could get my visa any time I wanted. She calls me, gleefully tells me what her coworker says and says she agrees with him because he travels all around the world and he knows so much and then calls me lazy and a liar (never mind that he and I are different nationalities which means our visa requirements aren't the same). Nope, I showed her all the documentation, she wanted to know why I hadn't bothered to tell her about my visa before. Things calmed down and we went back to her asking me 3x a month if I had my visa yet.This month she freaked out completely and started yelling at me that I still didn't have my visa and her coworker told her that I was lying. She shouted and called me lazy and a liar, again, so I told her I'd had it and I was out of the vacation. Her language got really colorful so I politely ended the call. I've now deeply and mortally offended her because I'm younger than her and I was the one who cancelled the trip - I have no right to cancel anything, only she can and she still wanted to go. I also ended the call first because she was merely screaming at me. Only the person who is older can end the phone call. And if someone older than you is yelling at you? You have to accept it. Ah, no.So many signs... I hate it when I'm oblivious (my first word choice was stupid).It sounds like she's just annoying. Planning a vacation together doesn't have to mean the end of a friendship, but it seems she just wasn't a great friend in the first place. Because why would you talk crap about a friend behind their back, then tell them about it, while simultaneously calling them a liar? That's not a friendship. I'm super petty, so if it were me, I'd probably still go on the trip without her. And make sure she knows about it.
Death of a friendship = planning a vacation together.
Quote from: gidget on October 26, 2016, 03:09:36 pmDeath of a friendship = planning a vacation together.Boy that does sound stressful. It's probably for the best that you aren't travelling together, because she might even be more ridiculous on the trip. I hope you are still able to go on the trip and have a good time!For me and my friend planning was okay, but the actual trip was not what I thought it would be. Turns out she's super controlling and doesn't listen to anyone's opinion but her own. She's hoping to travel again together next year but I'm hoping my sister will visit so I can say I'm unavailable.
Quote from: gidget on October 26, 2016, 03:09:36 pmDeath of a friendship = planning a vacation together.I was supposed to go on vacation with a friend. She really wanted to travel and she was saying that her family and friends don't like travelling with her but she didn't want to travel alone so she suggested we travel together. Now, I need a visa, she doesn't. The earliest I can apply for my visa is in November. I told her this, she said she was fine with it. But ever since May, 3x a month, I've had to tell her, again, why I still haven't applied for my visa. I can bear repeating the same thing over and over again. What gets my goat, is that in July she spoke to a coworker of hers who told her I was being lazy and I was a liar and I could get my visa any time I wanted. She calls me, gleefully tells me what her coworker says and says she agrees with him because he travels all around the world and he knows so much and then calls me lazy and a liar (never mind that he and I are different nationalities which means our visa requirements aren't the same). Nope, I showed her all the documentation, she wanted to know why I hadn't bothered to tell her about my visa before. Things calmed down and we went back to her asking me 3x a month if I had my visa yet.This month she freaked out completely and started yelling at me that I still didn't have my visa and her coworker told her that I was lying. She shouted and called me lazy and a liar, again, so I told her I'd had it and I was out of the vacation. Her language got really colorful so I politely ended the call. I've now deeply and mortally offended her because I'm younger than her and I was the one who cancelled the trip - I have no right to cancel anything, only she can and she still wanted to go. I also ended the call first because she was merely screaming at me. Only the person who is older can end the phone call. And if someone older than you is yelling at you? You have to accept it. Ah, no.So many signs... I hate it when I'm oblivious (my first word choice was stupid).Friend? How was she ever a friend? Sounds like an absolute lunatic. Imagine traveling with her.
Quote from: zola on October 26, 2016, 03:33:46 pmQuote from: gidget on October 26, 2016, 03:09:36 pmDeath of a friendship = planning a vacation together.I was supposed to go on vacation with a friend. She really wanted to travel and she was saying that her family and friends don't like travelling with her but she didn't want to travel alone so she suggested we travel together. Now, I need a visa, she doesn't. The earliest I can apply for my visa is in November. I told her this, she said she was fine with it. But ever since May, 3x a month, I've had to tell her, again, why I still haven't applied for my visa. I can bear repeating the same thing over and over again. What gets my goat, is that in July she spoke to a coworker of hers who told her I was being lazy and I was a liar and I could get my visa any time I wanted. She calls me, gleefully tells me what her coworker says and says she agrees with him because he travels all around the world and he knows so much and then calls me lazy and a liar (never mind that he and I are different nationalities which means our visa requirements aren't the same). Nope, I showed her all the documentation, she wanted to know why I hadn't bothered to tell her about my visa before. Things calmed down and we went back to her asking me 3x a month if I had my visa yet.This month she freaked out completely and started yelling at me that I still didn't have my visa and her coworker told her that I was lying. She shouted and called me lazy and a liar, again, so I told her I'd had it and I was out of the vacation. Her language got really colorful so I politely ended the call. I've now deeply and mortally offended her because I'm younger than her and I was the one who cancelled the trip - I have no right to cancel anything, only she can and she still wanted to go. I also ended the call first because she was merely screaming at me. Only the person who is older can end the phone call. And if someone older than you is yelling at you? You have to accept it. Ah, no.So many signs... I hate it when I'm oblivious (my first word choice was stupid).Friend? How was she ever a friend? Sounds like an absolute lunatic. Imagine traveling with her.My wife forgot her passport for our honeymoon (luckily we were at the train station and not the airport when she noticed). I got the blame. That was a good start to the marriage. The mother in law said it was my fault and I laughed in her face. I ain't got time for that sort of shit.