Thank you for such a through reply, and although I disagree with a lot of what you said, it has pushed me away from getting a pet. I think maybe the reason I haven't gotten one yet is because I know I can't provide the best home for it.However, I don't want the best to be the enemy of the good. Animal advocates shouldn't discourage people from helping animals at all just because these people aren't able or willing to do 100%. 80% is still a lot of percent.
Since I can't be sure the school will re-sign me in August, that means that I don't know if I can be a long term friend to this puppy. I guess that makes me pretty damn immoral to you guys eh?
Also, if I find out that the landlord can't take care of the puppy anymore, asking someone on this forum to take care of it, instead of giving it to an animal shelter, would be immoral too?
That it be put in an animal shelter where it has less than a 20 or 30% chance of being adopted. Or to ask someone on this board to take care of it? Even if the person on this board can only take care of it for a year, it seems to have a greater than 20 or 30% chance of surviving.
There are other ways you can help:- give money to an animal charity- volunteer at an animal shelter- educate your students about animal care
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 10:56:49 am Since I can't be sure the school will re-sign me in August, that means that I don't know if I can be a long term friend to this puppy. I guess that makes me pretty damn immoral to you guys eh?I can sense that you feel pretty strongly about this, however, I don't know why you'd think others would find it immoral for you to befriend this puppy. In fact I think you are helping him out a lot by playing with him and teaching him new things and socializing him.
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 10:56:49 amAlso, if I find out that the landlord can't take care of the puppy anymore, asking someone on this forum to take care of it, instead of giving it to an animal shelter, would be immoral too?No, that would be a kindness. Why would it be immoral? :( ??
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 10:56:49 am That it be put in an animal shelter where it has less than a 20 or 30% chance of being adopted. Or to ask someone on this board to take care of it? Even if the person on this board can only take care of it for a year, it seems to have a greater than 20 or 30% chance of surviving.Yes, many shelter animals are euthanized. One government shelter I know in Korea advertises and promotes the animals for adoption (or for their owners to find them) and I think they have a 65% success rate. That still means 35% of animals don't make it.In the long term, though, I think it would benefit animals more if we got away from the idea of convenience/disposable pets and that it was ok to have them for a year or two and then give them away. A pet is for life, not just for Korea.
Yes, it is good to adopt those animals that hardly have a chance at all. But once you save their life, are you not then responsible for it? I know that people might want to help an animal but they can't make the forever commitment, and that's ok. There are alternatives to adopting (fostering, volunteering at a shelter, etc) where you can spend time with a furry friend. Check out BAPS (http://shindogs.org/) for a good way to help animals.
Should we villainize people who honestly cannot keep their pets and try to find them the best possible homes? No, but I don't think we should normalize it either.
You guys kind of remind me of Greenpeace convincing Zambia not to accept corn donated by the United States merely because it was GE corn. This despite the fact that the other alternative was to allow people in Zambia to starve to death.
Quote from: merle on April 14, 2011, 11:49:17 amQuote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 10:56:49 am Since I can't be sure the school will re-sign me in August, that means that I don't know if I can be a long term friend to this puppy. I guess that makes me pretty damn immoral to you guys eh?I can sense that you feel pretty strongly about this, however, I don't know why you'd think others would find it immoral for you to befriend this puppy. In fact I think you are helping him out a lot by playing with him and teaching him new things and socializing him.I feel strongly against telling people they are being unethical when there is little evidence to support it.
Because I might end up giving it to one of these immoral people on the board that might only want it for the company and are planning to give it away when they leave Korea.Tell you what. If the puppy that lives at my house needs a home, and it's a choice between the animal shelter and someone that won't keep it for life, I might seriously consider the person that won't keep it for life. It's not so much that I think giving the puppy to such a person is a great option. It's that if there is no better option available, I would take that option.
Another example, I dabble in Java programming. Now it would be great if I could be a Java programmer making $70,000 a year and have hot looking 22 year old girls I could have fun with. This lifestyle is not an option because
Similarly, keeping a pet temporarily instead of permanently may not be the best imaginable option. But judging the morality of that is kind of dependent on what the other reasonable options are.
If you save a person's life, would you then be permanently responsible for that person? What if I decide to save the life of a one year old child? Let's say, the mother abandoned the child out in the countryside near where I live. If I save that child's life, does that mean I am obligated to raise that child for 17 to 18 years until he/she becomes an adult? Or would it be okay for me to do whatever I can to find someone else to raise that child?
Well, if I give an animal to someone I can't be 100% sure of their motives. For all I know, it could be a person who wants a cat to use as bait for a dog fight show. I can try going on gut feeling, or by asking specific questions. But gut feeling isn't reliable, and people can lie.
So my question to you is, if someone posts a "Kitty free to a good home" post, how can you tell whether it's someone who just took in the pet temporarily or if it's someone that honestly can't keep the pet anymore? If you can't be 100% sure, then aren't you risking villianizing someone that is honestly doing the best he can?
Also, what do you think the moderators of the board should do? Visit each person individually and interrogate them to make sure they are the type that honestly can't take care of the pet anymore?
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmYou guys kind of remind me of Greenpeace convincing Zambia not to accept corn donated by the United States merely because it was GE corn. This despite the fact that the other alternative was to allow people in Zambia to starve to death.Emphasis mine.I can understand that, since I did quote your post that you would address some of your argument to me, but seriously... "You guys" ? It does not make sense (nor is it a good argument) to sweep everyone who may disagree with how you feel into one big pile and then reference something that has little (if anything) to do with the original topic. I am not the OP and I do not speak for him/her.
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmQuote from: merle on April 14, 2011, 11:49:17 amQuote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 10:56:49 am Since I can't be sure the school will re-sign me in August, that means that I don't know if I can be a long term friend to this puppy. I guess that makes me pretty damn immoral to you guys eh?I can sense that you feel pretty strongly about this, however, I don't know why you'd think others would find it immoral for you to befriend this puppy. In fact I think you are helping him out a lot by playing with him and teaching him new things and socializing him.I feel strongly against telling people they are being unethical when there is little evidence to support it.It's not the taking in of an animal in need that is unethical. It is when animals are only kept when it is convenient and then given away/dumped/etc when they are no longer wanted when you know in advance that you will not be able to take them with you and yet keep them for months or years before finding them new owners.
Or alternatively, you could find someone to foster the animal who would try and find him a good home. Why can't that be an option? Why is the choice only between going to the shelter or someone who will give the animal away when they leave?
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmAnother example, I dabble in Java programming. Now it would be great if I could be a Java programmer making $70,000 a year and have hot looking 22 year old girls I could have fun with. This lifestyle is not an option becauseIt is not an option because it not realistic or comparable to this topic. What you describe in this example is what looks to be an obvious fantasy (not saying that you can't have a hot 22 year old girlfriend, I don't know you and don't want to impinge on your ability to get girls ;) ). But is it really fantastical to think that people could be responsible pet owners who would not regularly give away their pets when they don't want them anymore? I hope someday it can become a reality.
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmSimilarly, keeping a pet temporarily instead of permanently may not be the best imaginable option. But judging the morality of that is kind of dependent on what the other reasonable options are.Not judging morals, just intentions. Temporarily having a pet because you want the help them get a better life and find a permanent home (while also enjoying their company) = good on you.Temporarily keeping a pet because you're lonely and then ditching them when you leave = not so good.
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmIf you save a person's life, would you then be permanently responsible for that person? What if I decide to save the life of a one year old child? Let's say, the mother abandoned the child out in the countryside near where I live. If I save that child's life, does that mean I am obligated to raise that child for 17 to 18 years until he/she becomes an adult? Or would it be okay for me to do whatever I can to find someone else to raise that child?Holy extremes, Batman! Perhaps you'd take that child into your home temporarily out of the elements while you did what any responsible person would do and call the authorities, who would then come and take are of the child because we have systems in place to deal with these sorts of situations. Of course you would not be obligated to raise that child! I don't think social services would let you, anyway. But let's say you lived in a place where this wasn't possible, some remote and undeveloped place or something. Sure, take the child in and do whatever you can to find someone else to raise that child if you are unable to. Kinda like you'd be fostering him then, eh?
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmWell, if I give an animal to someone I can't be 100% sure of their motives. For all I know, it could be a person who wants a cat to use as bait for a dog fight show. I can try going on gut feeling, or by asking specific questions. But gut feeling isn't reliable, and people can lie.That's why it is super important to screen potential new homes. For anyone who find a stray who needs a home or is looking to rehome a pet, please check out this link (Best Friends Animal Society) for some good tips:http://www.bestfriends.org/nomorehomelesspets/pdf/howtofindhomesforpets.pdf
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pmSo my question to you is, if someone posts a "Kitty free to a good home" post, how can you tell whether it's someone who just took in the pet temporarily or if it's someone that honestly can't keep the pet anymore? If you can't be 100% sure, then aren't you risking villianizing someone that is honestly doing the best he can?You could ask the history of the pet and why the pet is up for adoption, which you should do anyway if you are looking to adopt. And even if it is someone who is rehoming their pet, it's not like we should necessarily then post and say "You are a bad person, shame on you," since frankly that does not help the animal at all, now. However, I do not think it should be OK or commonplace for people to routinely give their pets away, especially for free. Encouraging responsible pet ownership is good. Isn't it?
Quote from: elzoog on April 14, 2011, 08:35:26 pm Also, what do you think the moderators of the board should do? Visit each person individually and interrogate them to make sure they are the type that honestly can't take care of the pet anymore?Er, also extreme question there. Nice use of the word "interrogate" to make it even more negative. I'm not sure if the mods and admin have a policy regarding pet ads on waygook.org or if they even feel they need one. Perhaps they could have guidelines for the buy/sell/trade section regarding living creatures, but it's really not the focus of this website.Getting back to the OP, rereading the first post, I don't think this thread was started because they didn't want people to help animals. I think it was more in response to ads like this:"Hi, I'm leaving in two weeks and need to find a home for my cat. He is 10 months old and is really sweet and has been great company. Can you give him a good home?"
If I post on this board "Dog free to a good home" I might end up giving the dog to someone that wants to put her in a dog fight. I can try to avoid that. But without that machine that gives me 100% accurate information on people's motives, I can't be 100% sure. The guy that wants to put the dog in a dog fight isn't going to say so when he comes over to look at the dog. He's going to seem like a cool affable guy that gets along well with dogs. He might even be the type that tells me that he will foster the dog for a few months until he finds the dog a better home.
Davox,There is no need to let kittens starve to death on the street. If I did see a starving kitten, been here for two years and havn't yet (you must be running around saving them all) then I would take it to an animal shelter."Loving foreigner" how can you be loving if you leave a pet alone in an apartment for say, 8 hours a a day with no stimulation. That's not loving in my opinion.Of course there are different situations and it is hard to make accurate assumptions without seeing each case. However on the whole I think it best, if you are living in Korea temporarily, to just leave having animals out of the equation.There are other ways you can help:- give money to an animal charity- volunteer at an animal shelter- educate your students about animal careAlso I found your initial sarcastic response a little unhelpful.Especially as it breaks my heart every time I see animals getting treated badly in this country.
You're in a new place, you don't know many people, and wouldn't a pet ever be nice? And wow, wouldn't you know it, someone near you has one that needs a new home. I know of someone like that. He had been in Korea a couple of months and he met a friend-of-a-friend who had to get rid of her cat because the country to which she was moving had a six-month quarantine. Carrying case, dishes, toys, the works. But what would he do in ten months when it was time to go home to Canada and face reality? Well, there were three other foreign coteachers living in his apartment building - surely one of them would like a pet when he left. She could become like the hagwon mascot. If not surely someone at the foreigner bar would want her, especially if he posted some photos of how precious and cute she was. And one of his coteachers could feed her in the unlikely event he was able to get two vacation days in a row. Six months in and this guy and wongjongnim-babo had a parting of ways and, liking most things about Korea and not wanting to return to Canada, he moved off to a real school in the countryside. Suddenly he found himself with weeks of time off at various times of the year and all sorts of interesting thoughts and plans about where outside Korea he could spend them. But what to do about the cat? Leaving her at home and asking his coteacher to feed her was an option, but she spent so much time alone at home already and appeared to go bonkers the first time he tried it for several weeks in a row. Come summer he found some foreigners about five km away and arranged with them to take her at different times based around their summer holiday schedules. However, their summer plans changed at the last minute and when their director found out there was a cat in the apartment he immediately evicted her, a pleasure he normally only enjoyed with humans. I heard some story about how this was done using bed sheets as nets but I'd rather not think about that. The director called this idiot's poor coteacher to come pick up his cat, and not knowing what to do, his coteacher looked up an animal kennel. In Korea, animal kennel = dog kennel. This poor creature spent over a week in a cage surrounded by terrifying barking dogs while her idiot master enjoyed sipping Kokanee on his sister's porch. The next holiday period he found some people who we're real cat lovers and, following his return, were happy to keep her. For a number of months until it was time to leave. They found a Korean who is amongst the 0.-something % of Koreans who think a cat might make a nice pet, and he agreed to take her. Maybe she ended up with a great permanent home; maybe she ended up starving to death in a ditch. In any case the end result was that this idiot ended up causing himself, a bunch of others, and quite possibly the cat a lot more grief than a few months of feline companionship would be worth. As you’ve probably guessed, the idiot described in the story above is me [waits for mod warning for calling a poster an idiot] and that is my cautionary tale. No matter how wonderful the idea of having a pet dog, cat, rabbit, turtle, or even bloody duckling may seem, unless you’re prepared to plan your entire life around it, it’s a very stupid and irresponsible thing to get. They’re going to outlive a one-year stay in Korea, you could hit a snag and have to leave Korea tomorrow, and with the exception of small dogs the vast majority of Koreans don’t like those creatures except in various recipes. Let’s not be idiots.