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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #40 on: December 09, 2021, 09:06:35 am »
I  am not sure you spelt that expletive correctly! Shouldn't it have a "u" rather than an "a"?

Plausible deniability.


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #41 on: December 09, 2021, 10:36:59 am »
On the other hand, due to globalisation/tourism/increase in the numbers of people working here, foreigners no longer have as much as a wow factor for Korean women as they used to. Plus teacher salaries stagnating (thanks hangook 77) means they hold less economic attraction. Meanwhile you've got the hordes of white women teacher and student koreaboos flocking over, all looking for Korean boyfriends. Korean dudes never had it so good. (before Covid anyway)

Not sure why you are thanking me for that.  It's not my fault.
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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #42 on: December 09, 2021, 10:42:05 am »
Let's be clear here though.. The real statement of this thread is that Koreans do not want foreign men dating Korean women.

Most point here tend to only look at racism and xenophobia as the sole reasons. This is fair but a rather simplistic way of looking at things.

A better rationale would be demographics. There just aren't enough Korean women to go around. That isn't the case nowadays with kids. Go to any elementary school and you'll find a fairly even ratio of men to women. Kids born today will not have to go what previous generations are going through today..a lack of resources...with women being the resources.

This isn't the case for someone born in 1990. In 1990 there were 116 boys born for every 100 girls. Fast forward to 2021 and that 31 year old office worker simply can't find a woman. He does everything he can, earns a decent salary, and dresses well, but simply cannot find a wife or even get laid. He is devastated at the prospect of going through life like this.

He goes with friends on a Saturday night outing to Hongdae and what does he see? He sees a skinny white dude with a Korean honey in his arms. One that would not give him the time of day. An hour goes by and he sees two obvious American soldiers, one white, and one black guy walking into a love motel with two Korean female companions. Who knows what sick things will go in there. He heads home, knowing full well that these women would not give him or his friends the time of day.

Of course there is going to be resentment against foreigners. With the deck already stacked against them, even foreigners have swept in and are taking a piece of the pie, which they can simply not access.
Not only will there be resentment, but possible hatred against these foreign "intruders" who are making a hard life even more difficult.



Hardly.  A westerner is here 15 years too late for the "wow" factor.  "Me love you long time" is long gone.  Unless you are a good looking guy or give women that vibe to begin with, women here won't trip all over you just because you are different anymore.  (And believe me, I met some guys who were kind of tall with blond hair, but their faces were blech who had some pretty attractive Korean wives.  They got here several years before me and really cornered the market.  Girls loved them because they had blond hair, were tall, and made good money back then.  Guys like that came over the past 10 years and had a much tougher time.)


Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #43 on: December 09, 2021, 10:45:35 am »
And you're definitely coming at us all wrong by accusing or implying we take sex trips to southeastern Asia and upload pornos onto my profile or hers, which as out of place as what the Koreans said yesterday.  That's two days in a row of weird accusations coming out of nowhere.     
That wasn't directed at you. That post I didn't quote you or state your ID, so wasn't trying to make it about you. The SE Asia reference was about certain people on this board who have hinted at regular trips there for "entertainment" and one poster in particular talking about how he isn't here for sex yet for a long time had an Asian porn star as his avatar on a forum.

Anyways we all have different reasons for being here. Some are here for their 3.8 million a month. Others are here because both they and their wife make good money with the rand stinking it up, others because they're into the tender embrace of magkeolli, others came for the Starcraft scene, others clearly came for sex but have to lie to themselves and us about it, others came for an even more tragic reason- the puppy love of one girl in particular, I think one of us actually came because thay had a legit non-teaching job, another came to spread the Message of Stossel, and finally one of us came as a paid Korean govt/GOP spokesperson on internet forums.
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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #44 on: December 09, 2021, 10:52:09 am »
Let me add what is new in the last few years are the number of white women who come here actually wanting to date or marry a Korean dude.  So, that didn't use to happen.  I hate to say it but it was quite rare 10 or more years ago for a white woman to date a Korean or Asian man, unless they were slightly odd.  A white chick wanting to find her "oppa" is a strange new phenomenon.  (Most women did not like Asian men at all.)  Anyways, a Korean man can date a white girl or even import a pretty bride from another Asian country.  So, he has options he may not have had  in the past.  Also, the economy is bad for everyone so many are opting out of marriage too.   

I don't care who dates who, but if a Korean man dates a white woman then Korean men shouldn't care if white men date Korean women.  Of course if they see the white woman as a status of conquest, then hypocritical double standards will apply. 

Overall, as I said before, a white guy, black guy, whomever else will still attract Korean women if he's funny, good looking, charming, rich, etc.   (Not all of those qualities at once, just one or two of them.)  It's almost the same as being in the west and attracting western women.  The only difference is you don't have to deal with the woke crap and some chick going angry feminist on you.  (But, I'd tell some white chick, I love Trump and watch their reaction.  If they get angry or bail, then I know they aren't for me anyhow.  Then again, I see a lot of info online claiming Conservative women are hot.  So, who knows?) 


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #45 on: December 09, 2021, 10:57:52 am »
Let me add what is new in the last few years are the number of white women who come here actually wanting to date or marry a Korean dude.  So, that didn't use to happen.
Really "hangook77"? Really?

You know one or two such?

Vegas has the over/under at 0.5
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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #46 on: December 09, 2021, 10:59:09 am »
Then again, I see a lot of info online claiming Conservative women are hot.  So, who knows?)

even if you set politics aside, they aren't



Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #47 on: December 09, 2021, 11:05:30 am »
Let me add what is new in the last few years are the number of white women who come here actually wanting to date or marry a Korean dude.  So, that didn't use to happen.  I hate to say it but it was quite rare 10 or more years ago for a white woman to date a Korean or Asian man, unless they were slightly odd.  A white chick wanting to find her "oppa" is a strange new phenomenon.  (Most women did not like Asian men at all.)  Anyways, a Korean man can date a white girl or even import a pretty bride from another Asian country.  So, he has options he may not have had  in the past.  Also, the economy is bad for everyone so many are opting out of marriage too.   

I don't care who dates who, but if a Korean man dates a white woman then Korean men shouldn't care if white men date Korean women.  Of course if they see the white woman as a status of conquest, then hypocritical double standards will apply. 

Funny how in none of this is it considered that white people/westerners also started being more open-minded or engaged in any changes and that perhaps prejudice was a two-way street.

I will say I think changes started earlier. Like 2010ish. I will also say, that I've heard some dodgy things personally, both back home and from expats here either directed at me or at other couples where the person was a Korean/Asian man. And that the comments increased in nastiness relative to the physical attraction of the woman in question.

Wasn't there a thread on here about one such relationship (not the one with the psycho husband) but a different one and the person was trying to date Korean men or something and a few so-called men on this site went full ajosshi on how she was making a mistake by going interracial?

I don't think a lot of people are as neutral on this as they proclaim, and some of the ones making a big stink about it come across as the most likely offenders.


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #48 on: December 09, 2021, 11:42:39 am »
Funny how in none of this is it considered that white people/westerners also started being more open-minded or engaged in any changes and that perhaps prejudice was a two-way street.

I will say I think changes started earlier. Like 2010ish. I will also say, that I've heard some dodgy things personally, both back home and from expats here either directed at me or at other couples where the person was a Korean/Asian man. And that the comments increased in nastiness relative to the physical attraction of the woman in question.

Wasn't there a thread on here about one such relationship (not the one with the psycho husband) but a different one and the person was trying to date Korean men or something and a few so-called men on this site went full ajosshi on how she was making a mistake by going interracial?

I don't think a lot of people are as neutral on this as they proclaim, and some of the ones making a big stink about it come across as the most likely offenders.

Oh, yeah?  I never saw anything like that.  Personally, I never cared who dated who.  I just didn't see many white women dating Korean men until the last few years or so.  I do know the rare few who did try it before say 2010 commented on Dave's about it.  The women said the guys ended up being physco stalkers and acted sexist towards them.  (Their comments, not mine.)  But, I don't think younger Korean men have these behaviours that were described a couple of decades ago. 
« Last Edit: December 09, 2021, 11:46:11 am by hangook77 »


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #49 on: December 09, 2021, 11:45:00 am »
even if you set politics aside, they aren't



I haven't lived in the west for a while.  So, who knows?  But some studies were done.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNkg78D5iqI



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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #50 on: December 09, 2021, 11:50:31 am »
Really "hangook77"? Really?

You know one or two such?

Vegas has the over/under at 0.5

??  Anyways, the K dramas on netflix and the k pop videos on YouTube gave a small number of young white women some idealized fantasy.  Not the majority by any means, but a few.  It may be a very tiny per centage but it is still way more than before.  You can even see them posting vids on YouTube about wanting to live a "Korean" life. 

The point is that there are far more white or black women willing to date or even marry a Korean man.  Some are from the English speaking countries, some are even from other non English European countries.  Quite a few married white women on Facebook expat groups too.  (You know married to Korean men.)  I really don't care either way.  Just making an observation. 


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #51 on: December 09, 2021, 11:54:53 am »
Just one video.  Do some deeper digging find plenty more examples of a foreign chick with a Korean man. 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r27O9jgjzg


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #52 on: December 09, 2021, 12:19:06 pm »
Sorry, I don't go to Waygook.org to watch videos.


Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #53 on: December 09, 2021, 12:36:00 pm »
Oh, yeah?  I never saw anything like that.  Personally, I never cared who dated who.  I just didn't see many white women dating Korean men until the last few years or so.  I do know the rare few who did try it before say 2010 commented on Dave's about it.  The women said the guys ended up being physco stalkers and acted sexist towards them.  (Their comments, not mine.)  But, I don't think younger Korean men have these behaviours that were described a couple of decades ago.
https://www.waygook.org/index.php?topic=81686.20
Here's one such thread. I think there was another out there. It starts as a shitpost but later on you see the discussion evolve, especially when female posters actually start entering the discussion. Not to mention the underlying current of (side note- I don't think homophobia is the correct word to use in a lot of cases, because a lot of comments aren't really homophobic, they're more like people being insecure about other people being gay or using gayness as an insult. Whatever it is, you see it in this thread from a few male posters). 

Basically a few posters on here back then, and I suspect a few now essentially hold this view- "I don't have a problem with Koreans dating white/British/American women, though why any of them would want to date one of those wife-beating gay effeminate chain-smoking makeup-obsessed kimchi belching girly pig men is beyond me. But I don't have a problem. Only bigoted, judgmental Korean people are like that."


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #54 on: December 09, 2021, 01:16:20 pm »
Just one video.  Do some deeper digging find plenty more examples of a foreign chick with a Korean man.
Wow. You are right.
As you'd say:  https://youtu.be/P5mtclwloEQ


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #55 on: December 09, 2021, 01:32:24 pm »
https://www.waygook.org/index.php?topic=81686.20
Here's one such thread. I think there was another out there. It starts as a shitpost but later on you see the discussion evolve, especially when female posters actually start entering the discussion. Not to mention the underlying current of (side note- I don't think homophobia is the correct word to use in a lot of cases, because a lot of comments aren't really homophobic, they're more like people being insecure about other people being gay or using gayness as an insult. Whatever it is, you see it in this thread from a few male posters). 

Basically a few posters on here back then, and I suspect a few now essentially hold this view- "I don't have a problem with Koreans dating white/British/American women, though why any of them would want to date one of those wife-beating gay effeminate chain-smoking makeup-obsessed kimchi belching girly pig men is beyond me. But I don't have a problem. Only bigoted, judgmental Korean people are like that."

You seem to be making the accusations.  But as of 2015 (when you posted this) and especially before, you really did not see white women and Korean men all that often.  More so since then. 



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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #56 on: December 09, 2021, 01:36:22 pm »
Wow. You are right.
As you'd say:  https://youtu.be/P5mtclwloEQ

Well, that was painful.  But, it seems you were too sexy for Jeju-Do.  So, they kicked you off. 


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #57 on: December 09, 2021, 01:40:31 pm »
Sorry, I don't go to Waygook.org to watch videos.

You already said that.  Don't go to waygook then. 


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #58 on: December 09, 2021, 01:56:26 pm »
Well, that was painful.  But, it seems you were too sexy for Jeju-Do.  So, they kicked you off. 
Indeed. Never date your boss. It never ends well. She sees to it.


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Re: Accused of moving here to have sex with Koreans?
« Reply #59 on: December 09, 2021, 02:20:17 pm »
When I first arrived in Korea in September 2005, the Principal of the school I worked at told me upon meeting me the very first day that Korean women were not to be dated.