When you apply to EPIK they like to pretend that everyone gets an amazing modern apartment. The reality is that the apartment you get is completely random, and often it's a weird decrepit typical Korean apartment. I'm sure there's a wide range of apartments in China too but I wouldn't assume that everyone gets the same modern apartment.
Dem risk and danger times in the rough-and-ready Korea of 2005. Back then you were moving to an industrialized country in the OECD and didn't know what the hell you were getting into.People would point and stare, and there were bad bosses that would rip-off workers which is unheard of in Des Moines, IA
Cops and the legal system never took your side in any dispute with a Korean.
What first hand experience do you have of this?
foreign investors use to complain about this years ago too
Wait a minute... Prosecutors don't file charges in a divorce case. Either it's a criminal case the divorce is irrelevant, or a divorce case, for which no prosecutors should be involved. Which was it? Did he? What was the outcome? Wouldn't he have implicated himself in the bribe since he told you that he paid it?Was he a practicing lawyer in Korea? If not, what was he doing here? Just curious.
No one gives a rats ass except for nerds.
...and English teachers, ESL teachers, anyone looking to hire an English or ESL teacher, anyone looking to learn from an English or ESL teacher. ... rat's ass.
I teach speaking and use spell check on ppts and handouts. Get back to the drawing board.
Yeah, I guess I didn't mention the side story. She started some shit together with her dad and then he had to drive off staying safe. He deliberately jumped on the car as he drove off to create extra drama for revenge.
Uhh..... I think this seems like a situation where we might be 1) Aren't getting the whole story and 2) There's a different side to this story. I have no idea what he was wrapped up in. I do know that one complaint Koreans have is that foreigners often get treated more leniently and that they get a bunch of special perks (some of these aren't justified at all, others do have some merit). The grass is always greener...
Nope. English teachers get in a fight with a Korean, even self defence, they get charged. Cops always take the Koreans side. A foreign girl gets raped, at least until recently, the cops often deliberately bungled the evidence and before never even wanted to investigate the crime.
Well, a lot of these stories, frankly, aren't as one-sided in what transpired as are related. The people I've seen who tend to get into these incidents often have some sort of preceding altercation and may be doing some pretty obnoxious or aggressive things themselves. Usually there's alcohol involved. And yes, there are different laws for assault and self-defense here. Often these stories are told by people who were buzzed at the least and often have a stunning lack of self-awareness. "This cab almost hit me (almost hit means he was driving down a party street and you almost stumbled into him), so I kicked a dent into his door. The cops of course took his side."Generally, what my experience has been is if you're sober and the Korean person is being aggressive and is a known problem, usually the cops will side with you if you're in the right. Sex assault is far worse, but then Korea is generally shit on sex crimes period.
You want to make excuses and be an apologist, that's your right to I guess. No one can take that away from you.
No one is making excuses or being an apologist. I'm just pointing out what is the case when it comes to many of these incidents1) We're only getting one side of the story and it's the side we are most sympathetic too2) Alcohol is usually involved3) Often the person(s) on either side or both sides claiming to be the victims are both at fault at various stages4) The person communicating to the police is often speaking in English to a non-native speaker, is emotional, and is inebriated and thus it is going to happen that they won't be understood the best5) The people who seem to repeatedly get into these incidents tend to often represent the rule of "running into assholes all day"6) If we're getting 2nd or 3rd hand accounts of this, the details have often gotten exaggerated7) A first hand re-telling is little better. "What? You didn't mention the fact that you were obnoxiously loud in an Izakaya and the next table asked you to keep your voices down and that's when things kicked off? You think that might have been relevant to why the cops didn't take your side?"Now don't get me wrong. I have seen cops blatantly taking the side of Koreans without cause, but it is not that often and usually someone else noticing the scene (even a subordinate) will get this look on their face of things being wrong. And of course, I have seen plenty of times where the Korean police take the foreigner's side and show tremendous patience.
Get in a fight with a Korean and see what happens especially if they are running off at the mouth in Korean and you are speaking in English who gets listened to and who doesn't. While I haven't had any problems myself, I don't dismiss others who have had.
Other times, no damage done, mutual apologies, people move on. And a few times when people were outright assaulted the cops quickly dealt with it. If people are habitually encountering the police and getting "bad treatment", as NETs, you have to wonder what they're up to.
I was about to say, those look a lot like my first non school provided apartment, and yeah, 500k/m with 10mill down is *exactly* what I paid for it.They might be nothing special, but man, they are sooooooooooooooooo much better than your standard EPIK of hagwon provided housing.*****If you're planning on staying in Korea for more than 2 years, find a nice place to live yourself: the quality of life upgrade is immense.*****