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  • Hero of Waygookistan

    • 1291

    • March 26, 2020, 01:52:57 pm
    • Korea
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #20 on: March 26, 2021, 03:16:20 pm »
I didn't come to Asia to find a wife, it just happened, we met, fell in love and here we are. She was very poor and frankly had a bleak future, now she has a nice house on her name, I paid for her kids to go to private schools and colleges and one day when I die she will be financially secure for the rest of her life. What did I get in return? A fantastic wife who loves me unconditionally and we have a great time together, so I think it is a win-win situation.
do you have any idea how gross this reads? "she was poor and frankly had a bleak future, now she has a nice house in her name" I mean cmon man I'm sure you see the kind of assumptions that could be reasonably made about a relationship like that lol.

anyways, moving anywhere with the purpose of getting a gf/wife/whatever is usually a bad idea. happening to move somewhere when youre reaching a part of your life when you start pursuing relationships or just falling in love or whatever is perfectly normal, and if you move to a homogeneous country yeah you'll probably end up dating one of the locals. personally i avoid dating since im not planning to stick around here super long and dont feel the need to complicate shit with a relationship, different strokes for different folks and all.

that said if someones "different stroke" happens to be marrying a girl much younger and in a much lower income bracket, well, don't be surprised when ya get looked at funny.


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  • Waygook Lord

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    • March 02, 2015, 03:41:14 pm
    • Uiwang
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #21 on: March 26, 2021, 03:19:25 pm »
that said if someones "different stroke" happens to be marrying a girl much younger and in a much lower income bracket, well, don't be surprised when ya get looked at funny.

That's why I only seduce young, rich women with my wily charm.

Total Win.
The first thing to say is that this is definitely not pyramid selling, OK?


Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #22 on: March 26, 2021, 03:20:08 pm »
This. Seriously, who doesn't want to have sex with the young adult and hot? Well, I guess except those that have age-related fetishes or certain physical characteristic fetishes. The point being, hating on a man (or woman) for wanting to hook up with someone young adult and attractive is about as dumb as hating on someone for wanting a nice car.

women i guess
https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#cite_note-21
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/7954208/The-Cougar-concept-older-women-preying-on-younger-men-is-a-myth-claim-scientists.html



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  • Hero of Waygookistan

    • 1901

    • April 01, 2011, 03:01:41 pm
    • Anyang
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #23 on: March 26, 2021, 03:33:05 pm »

do you have any idea how gross this reads? "she was poor and frankly had a bleak future, now she has a nice house in her name" I mean cmon man I'm sure you see the kind of assumptions that could be reasonably made about a relationship like that lol.


I thought it was refreshingly honest.  He understood that the financial gain was part of the attraction. 


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  • Waygook Lord

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    • October 08, 2010, 01:02:32 pm
    • Zhubei, Hsinchu County, Taiwan (not part of China)
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Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #24 on: March 26, 2021, 03:36:08 pm »
I'm sure you see the kind of assumptions that could be reasonably made about a relationship like that lol.

My point exactly, assumptions based on a culture of 'Uggghhh, dirty old man dating/marrying a younger woman.'
There is no known medical cure for stupidity!


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  • The Legend

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    • January 19, 2015, 10:16:48 am
    • Cairo, Egypt (formerly Seoul)
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #25 on: March 26, 2021, 07:12:10 pm »
I have an American friend with a SEA wife 27 years his junior.

They met when he was was working (he is a lawyer) in her country. As CO2 wrote... one shops the local market.

He gets something he wants, she gets something she wants.

He is far from a LBH... he makes good money, has successful adult children from a previous relationship, and is generally a good guy.


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  • Super Waygook

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    • July 16, 2011, 11:28:36 pm
    • Seoul
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #26 on: March 27, 2021, 02:01:38 pm »
I may be a dirty old man and a loser, but I didnít come here to get married.  I got married to a Korean without  ever having a plan get married to anyone whatsoever  before I came here and then I got older after getting married over roughly a decade.  Thereís just a lot more Koreans to meet here than other nationalities.  Just say Iím a dirty old man and a loser, thank you very much.


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  • Hero of Waygookistan

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    • January 15, 2015, 11:48:59 am
    • Seoul
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #27 on: March 28, 2021, 02:37:46 am »
Do what floats your boat!


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    • March 01, 2021, 11:25:39 am
    • pub
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #28 on: March 28, 2021, 02:59:50 am »
I'm sure you see the kind of assumptions that could be reasonably made about a relationship like that lol.

My point exactly, assumptions based on a culture of 'Uggghhh, dirty old man dating/marrying a younger woman.'

When the roles are reversed, do women receive the same criticism?


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  • Hero of Waygookistan

    • 1403

    • January 15, 2015, 11:48:59 am
    • Seoul
Re: Older foreigners coming to Asia are dirty old men and losers.
« Reply #29 on: March 28, 2021, 03:55:23 am »
When the roles are reversed, do women receive the same criticism?

No, itís only old men who get the hate. Actually you could narrow it down further to a group who gets it the most. Old men from Minnesota  canít get a break!!

Minnesota hate is real!!